@Lawrie – definitely… i’m trying to get to that definition… and, that an interesting point about how much is happening that is new… there is certainly a fair amount of ‘breaking out’ that’s been happening over the last couple of weeks

@jen external validation kinda wanders over into the psychology realm… realistically, i see it as mostly emotional. Might be better if we found a better way of dealing with that emotion

@injen yes. I’m exactly the same way… and too many ed theories are currently based on what the theorist ‘saw happen to them’ but, like you say, how to pass that on or how to allow for those other ways…

@Corrie yup. that’s the question.